A lot of people give false hope whether they realise it or not. Some don't have the heart to say no while some are just enjoying the ride. They just love to receive attention but not willing to give the same back for some reason or another. Coward? Selfish? Perhaps. Or they could either be blind as a bat or just plain ignorant.
I guess for the 'victims', as long as they don't know, they're fine. Or some choose to be ignorant too. Knowing that if they choose to notice, their ride could end. A ride which with such hopes, brings them happiness, eventhough temporary. Sad? Maybe. Wrong? Maybe not.
So, can anything be done about it? For starters, the 'giver' could stop. Or then, the 'victim' could hitch a ride elsewhere, where their contribution or attention are genuinely and rightfully acknowledged or returned. Don't waste your time. Some things are not worth pursuing even if the 'crime' was not intentional to begin with. Unless both parties enjoy the ride for their own reasons, why bother wondering whether there's future. Let it be....
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