Hear What Oprah Winfrey Had To Say About Men

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you asyou deserve then heck no,
you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along,
then he probably is
Don't stay because you think "it will get better"
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when
things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women..

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would hetreat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships. ...
There is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. ..
Look for someone complimentary. ...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted

Never move into his mother's house..
Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful

You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you,
he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place,
just know that he's not the only one.

They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.
Make the right one.

Ladies take care of your ownhearts....

You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices,
and another woman prepare..

Some 1's birthday..

4 years dah...another 3 years to go..yeayy!! Lepas 3 tahun ni, selesai segala hutang-hutangku. Memandangkan dalam diri saya ni, cuma berhutangkan Cabai saya ni aje.

Saya tidak mempunyai kredit kad..i'm free from that..yeaayy!! Segala urusniaga membeli belah saya guna cash. Dengan adanya cash akan membuat diri saya ni lebih bertanggungjawab dalam setiap pembelian dan dalam masa yang sama, saya juga boleh berjimat-cermat dan tidak membeli barang-barang yang tidak sepatutnya dan membazir.

Saya tidak membeli rumah or menyewa ..sebab saya tinggal dengan parents saya...i'm free from that too...yeaayy!! Rumah saya sendiri pun dah ada kat KL and Kedah tu..so, dah boleh cuci tangan dan kaki nak masuk rumah sendiri tu nanti..heh..heh..heh.

Only my Cabai aje tanggunganku. Takpe...takpe...3 tahun aje lagi...tak lama dah..:)

Kenapa dinamakan Cabai? Sebab 'ia' berwarna merah menyala. Cabai is cili merah untuk orang KL...orang Kedah cakap cabai merah..heh..heh..heh..ganas tak? What ever it is...i really love my car...so far tak pernah lagi la dia ni bercium dgn sesiapa...or ada sesiapa yang cium dia. Touch woood!! Tengokla driver saper..?:) :D InsyaAllah...saya akan jaga dia macam saya jaga nyawa saya sendiri. This is my 2nd car, even my 1st car dulu pun xcident free :) Bukan senang nak dapat dia ni ..susah wooo..kena berusaha dengan titik peluh sendiri. Bukan bapak or BF or husband bayarkan downpayment...takder..takder..takder...semua ni usaha sendiri. Bertuahla anak/GF/wife tu kalau the above mentioned tu bayar d/payment..bertuahla orang tu.

Walaupun kecil aje, tp kereta sendiri dan tak menyusahkan orang lain nak kemana-mana pun.

Raya kat kampung..

Kawan-kawan semua. Saya dah selamat pulang ke kota metropolitan ni. Dan dah mula kerja pun. Hati masih di kampung lagi ni haa. Tak ada mood nak kerja lagi..still in a holiday mood.

Nak cerita ceriti raya kat Alor Star. Bertolak dari KL malam raya. Sampai Alor Star pukul 4 pagi. Kenapa lambat? Eemm.....bertolak pukul 9.30pm, berhenti kat Tapah sejam. Makan2, minum2, rehat2, cuci2 mata. Pehtu, hujan dari Sg Perak sampaila Alor Star. Kalau dah hujan tu, memang tak boleh nak SPEED la. Ingat pesanan penaja, berhati-hati di jalanraya, biar lambat asalkan selamat. Errmmm...memang lambat pun...7 jam baru sampai. Kalau bawa laju-laju nanti takut beraya kat hospital pulak...lagi haruu..:)

Selalunya pagi raya kami semua akan ke kubur arwah tok. Tp, pagi tu masih hujan. So, cancel nak ziarah kubur, pegi the next day. Jejaka-jejaka tampan semua bersiap untuk sembahyang raya. Saya tak pegi, sebab kena jaga mama, begitu juga dengan kakak2 ipar dan adik ipar. Ada yang siapkan hidangan, ada yang kena jaga/siap/mandikan anak, ada yang kena kemas rumah, etc..etc..etc.

Lepas dah bermaaf-maafan, snap gambar sana sikit...sini sikit. Kami ramai-ramai ke Istana Anak Bukit, untuk berjumpa dan berhari raya dengan Tuanku Sultan/Sultanah Kedah. Ingatkan cuma budak-budak aje dapat duit raya...saya pun dapat jugak tuanku bagi RM5.00. Jadikla dari tak ada langsung.

Ramai sedara mara yang datang beraya kat rumah kami. Memang tak menang tangan dan tak cukup kaki tangan dibuatnya. Kesian kat kakak2/adik iparku. Tp nasibla depa semua cekap buat kerja...tu yg saya paling respect. Heh..heh..heh..:) Nak harapkan saya, eerrmm......saya amik contract cuci pinggan, susun pinggan/gelas ajer :) Auntie bagitau kat saya, next year memandangkan semua kakak2/adik ipar akan beraya ke rumah parents masing-masing, saperla yang nak masak, bersiap makan segala ni? Memang kalau auntie sorang dia memang tak larat. Nak harapkan saya, alamatnya tak bergerakla dapur tu haa. My suggestions is, either auntie berhari raya di rumah menantu or buat katering or beraya kat KL or rumah kt Bukit Pinang tu tutup, sebab tuan rumah pergi bercuti...heh..heh...heh. See how it goes next year k.

Selama saya kat kampung. Tak banyak aktiviti yang saya buat melainkan, makan, tidur, tengok tv, beraya & melayan tetamu yang datang.

Untuk tatapan kawan-kawan yang disayangi...inila hasilnya hari raya 2008 di kampung saya di Alor Star. Enjoyyyy!!

Ini adalah aksi-aksi Malaysia's Next Top Model..:) Ni semua adalah abang-abang dan adik-adik saya..:)