Need & Want

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Read this and let it sink in forever and ever.....

Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had. Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yes terday, Hahahaha . . ..'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are FIRST CLASS!

Sigh..:(

Everybody else around me is getting married and I wish I could share the excitements with them. Of course, I am happy for my friends, but I wish I could tell them, "Hey, I am getting married too!"

I wish I too could go shopping for barang hantarans, set appointments with the photographers to see their portfolios, go to the bridal shops, having my mind about to explode thinking about every single detail and become a bridezilla just because it is all about me on my big day.

Okay, I would stop. I was just being a normal lady who is excited to get married.

$$ ada nak kahwin, tapi calon plak takder..:(

Tukar kereta

Smlm masa tengah tengok TV3 news, ada iklan Proton Exora…tiba-tiba Papa cakap “Shira, kita tukaq kereta ni, hari Sabtu ni kita pegi tengok kat showroom, kita book keta ni”. I was…"errr….huh!! errmmm…..tukaq kete baru?!?!” “Tak maula Papa….yg duk ada ni pun tak habis bayaq lagi, nak tambah hutang lagi buat apa?” “Bukan tambah hutang, kita trade in Kenari tu…kita amik Exora nih” “ Alaaa….tak maula….Shira suka kenari ni, economy, kecik, nak cilok senang, nak habis bayaq dah lagi 2 tahun, lepas tu I’m DEBTs FREE!!!! Tengah gawat-gawat ni pun ada hati nak tukaq keta…isshhh…tak maula”.

“Exora ni rendah…mama senang nak naik, dah tu boleh buh banyak barang…luas pulak tu”. Haaihh…selama ni naik kenari tak ada masalah bubuh barang-barang pun…tak ada masalah pun mama nak naik travel up down north south pi Frasers Hill…tak ada masalah pun. Tup tup kali ni, lain pulak…nak kete lagi besar. Besar sangat ke family saya ni. Yg nak naiknya cuma kami bertiga aje. Dah tu...bila saya ada outing dgn my friends ke, xkan saya nk bawa kete besar2 ni masuk KL...?!?! Isshh...tak sukala.

Conclusionnya.....saya akan tetap dengan CABAI saya nih. Nak maintain pun senang, murah, kecik, full tank RM50 dah boleh sampai Alor Setar…penting tu…penting. Skrg ni everything money matters. Benda-benda yang TAK sepatutnya dibelanja….dibeli…ditukar....lupakan. Guna aje apa yang ada..:D

My Beloved Moms

Selamat Hari Ibu untuk

Tunku Mariam Tunku Abdul Aziz Shah Al Haj

&

Tengku Naimah Tengku Abdul Hamid

I’m proud to have two moms. I love both of them so very much!!

I love u mom

Having u makes me feel safe & calm

I miss u mom

Missing touches to my face

With your soft palm

U r the greatest

I take this opportunity

to thank you for

your immeasurable

contribution to my life.

Thank you Mom!

Being a great mother is a very hard role,

But mother u r the star for this one I know,

I love you Mom.

Happy Mothers Day!

2009 Vacations

InsyaAllah...if everything goes well, these are the country that i'm going to visit this year.

End of July - Bandung

Early October - Miri

Early December - Jakarta

End of December till early January - Korea

Sakit belakang/pinggang

Apala muda-muda lg dah sakit belakang..sakit pinggang. Betulla...tak pernah rasa sesakit ni sebelum ni.

Ni terjadi masa nak pegi FH baru-baru ni. Masa nak angkat mama dari wheel chair masuk ke kereta, then nak angkat duduk betul-betul kat kerusi tu. Tiba-tiba rasa sakit sangat dari pinggang terus sampai ke lutut. Macam ada urat putus ke, terseliuh ke, berpintal ke..terkehel ke...haa..mcm tu. Phewwww...tak pernah rasa sesakit tu sebelum ni.

Masa driving kat winding road hari tu..memang sakit bila pusingkan stereng ke kiri & ke kanan tu. Bertambah-tambah sakitnya.

Since then, I was in pain all the time. Dah rasa macam orang tuala pulak…mmg tua pun..:P Nak tunduk tak boleh, tak terus duduk mencangkung ambil barang pun tak boleh, bila berdiri tegak nak terus tunduk pun tak boleh. Sakit ya amat sangat.

Segala-galanya kena buat dengan berhati-hati dan cermat….tak boleh lasak-lasak sangat. Dah rasa mcm orang tua tu dah 1 perkara...rasa mcm pregnant pun iyer jugak...adddooiii...masa berjalan tu terpegang2 pinggang ni punyalah nak tahan sakit tu. Bagitau kata Papa pasal sakit ni, dia pesan suruh letak Salonpas. Nasibla memang bawa medical equipment set kemerata tempat. Sekotak habis Salonpas tu.

Bila tidur, tak boleh terus bangun, kena alih badan ketepi, meniarap pehtu baru terus bangun. Kadang-kadang tu terlupa, terus bangun..haaaa…boleh menangis dibuatnya.

Sekarang ni masih lagi terasa sakitnya, dan masih lagi berSalonpas. Jalan pun kena slow-slow dan tegak aje. Addooii...rasa mcm nak pegi klinik...tp apa yg doktor boleh bagi pun just a pain killer kot. Tengokla macamana nanti. Sakit lagi ….:(

Destinasi bujet ke Frasers Hill

Dah lama saya tak update blog ni. Tak ada cerita/berita yang nak dikhabarkan.

Well, memandangkan kita semua baru lepas bercuti lama...tak lama pun 3 hari. Tapi, tu cukupla untuk saya dengan parents termasuk 2 orang anak sedara saya Fatihah & Farzana bercuti ke Frasers Hill. Kebetulan mama pun dah sihat alhamdulillah, dia pun dah boleh travel long distance, So, tak menjadi masalah nak bawa mama kesana.

Heemm...mungkin ada di antara pembaca sekalian akan berkata 'Pegi sana lagi, tak ada tempat lain ke nak pergi'. Bukan tak ada tempat lain, ada tu ada...tp ke FH ni senang, dekat & travelling cost is cheaper. Semua cost kesana saya yang tanggung, so kenala cari tempat-tempat yang bersesuaian dgn bujet saya ni. Ni kalau lebih-lebih dah kena berhutang...tak ada istilah 'hutang' dlm kamus hidup saya. Everything is in CASH.

Kami menginap kat Fraser's Silverpark Resort...studio unit apartment. Very nice place, nice view and cooling too. FH belum tercemar lagi masih clean & fresh macam dulu-dulu jugak. Tak semak, tak bising, everything sunyi sepi aje kat sana. Rimas saya kalau bising2 nih, kita pegi nak relax bukan nk semakkan fikiran yg dah memang serabut.

Most of the place kat sana still on renovations...cadang siap segala renovation in June 2009. Tak lama dah tu. Sesiapa nak ke sini, jemputla datang...janganla 'serik'. Pastikan bawa $$ secukupnya, lebih pun tak pe, sebab kat sana tak ada ATM machine. Pastikan isi minyak kereta penuh, kat sana tak ada petrol pump, kalau nk buat hotel booking make sure book awal-awal sebab hotel kat sana selalu fully booked.